Then stop normalizing it
Then stop romanticizing it
Then stop pretending it’s “hot”
Then stop pretending it’s “cute”
will you ever understand that fiction is NOT reality
but yeah, fiction totally doesnt impact reailty
like this is true but also ‘sexy’ really doesn’t work like that. you can 100% find something sexy without thinking about the details too much and then accidentally think about the details and suddenly the sexy has gone away. this includes made up sexy fiction in your head, too
and like… it’s more or less a moral obligation to give that extra thought in a real life situation but with fiction you… are allowed… to just… not do that. really.